Exciting! Going to daycare for the first time
The moment has come: your child is going to a daycare center for the first time to get used to things. This can be an exciting and emotional event. Both for you as a parent, but certainly also for your child.
It is an important milestone in your child's development, where emotional and practical preparation are crucial. Some useful tips and insights to make this transition as smooth as possible are therefore essential.
The emotional preparation of the first day at childcare
Say goodbye
One of the most emotional aspects of the first day at daycare is saying goodbye. It is a logical reaction to be concerned about how your child will react to the farewell. It is therefore wise to explain to your child what is going to happen, even if they are still very young. You can do this succinctly and with enthusiasm such as: 'We are going to the school later, where you can play wonderfully.' 'After playing, mom/dad will come pick you up again.' This way you prepare yourself and your child emotionally for a wonderful new phase that is about to begin.
From a pedagogical point of view, it is often recommended to keep the farewell short and clear. Let your child feel that you have confidence in the new environment and the caregivers. Consistency in the farewell ritual can help create a sense of security and predictability for your child.
To make the transition a little less difficult, you can choose to increase the duration of the care. Start with half a day and discuss with the pedagogical employee what a sensible structure is for your child. One child thrives on an immediate transition, the other child needs a little more time to get used to it. Don't forget your own emotions. It can be an exciting transition for you too. Therefore, give yourself, but also your child, time to get used to it. Many childcare centers often offer this adjustment days .
Childcare VIPKids, an expert during the adjustment process
Did you know that there is a childcare center that also has rest areas available for parents during drop-off and pick-up times? As a parent, you can enjoy a cup of tea, coffee or cold drink from the refrigerator before or after a working day. Take a rest and then enter the group where your child is staying and enjoy the children playing for a while.
The result: a relaxed parent and an enthusiastic child who can enjoy playing and developing.
2 golden tips for good preparation for your baby and toddler
– Bring a cloth or cuddly toy that you and/or your partner have slept with over the last few days. The pedagogical staff can place this with your child in the playpen, in the bed, or next to his or her face during bottle feeding, etc. This scent will feel familiar to your child and will make getting used to it a little easier.
– Start immediately by bringing your own sleeping bag. This can also give your child a safe feeling. Consult with the daycare center to see if this is possible.
Communication and involvement
You can remain involved in the well-being of your child, even when he or she is at daycare. Many daycare centers offer the option to call or send messages to inquire how things are going. This can be reassuring for both parents and children.
What do I practically take with me to the daycare center?
Good preparation is half the job. It is therefore useful to have a bag with the following items:
- Name bag: A personalized bag with your child's name. This way you will never lose your things and the pedagogical staff can easily find everything.
- Notebook: For recording daily schedules and details. This way you can clearly see what has happened at the end of the day. A very nice update and very nice to read again.
- Phone numbers: Your contact details and those of a trusted person who can also come and pick up your child.
- Supplies as a bottle, pacifier, and possibly a mini cooler for breast milk.
- Spare clothes: A spare set of clothes is always handy. For example, think of rainy days or minor accidents. A set of your own clothes is nice for your child.
House rules and details of the daycare center
It is useful to be aware of the house rules and details of the daycare center.
This way you prevent a restless start for your child.
For example, consider things such as cleaning shoes upon entry, specific pick-up times, and other practical details that can contribute to a smooth day.
It's an adventure for both parents and children, but with the right preparation and support it can be a positive experience for the whole family.
